Wedding Ceremony ~ Nastya and Denis

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Wedding Geographic is an international wedding & adventure-travel agency, whose aim it is to create special weddings abroad for adventurous couples. Your Foto Story is proud to represent South Africa on the Wedding Geographic world map.

Going on honeymoon and travelling somewhere new is almost as exciting as looking into the eyes of your life partner and saying “I do”, so why not combine the two? More and more couples are looking toward an adventurous wedding abroad! Not only is it the adventure of a lifetime with that special one, it also affords you the opportunity of creating your own wedding ceremony instead of following old patterns that may not resonate with the way you feel.

Buffels Bay was the setting for our most recent international wedding! We created a sand ceremony and built a beautiful wedding arch on the beach, underneath which the couples could exchange their vows. We prepared a wedding feast and we decorated the house to suit the mood.

We were as moved by the effect of it all, as was the bride and groom. They were truly touched. The ceremony was intimate, personal and the meaning was drawn from deep down within us all.

True love is a commitment and needs to be constantly renewed. True love is a choice that we make from moment to moment, for the rest of our lives. Every day we make that choice over and over again. We may only have one wedding ceremony and say ‘yes, I do’ only once, but through life, again and again, we come to accept our partners for the people they are and we forgive them for whatever needs to be forgiven. True love is not the passion of the first night, but rather the endurance of the years thereafter. True love doesn’t come all at once. It starts small and if it is nurtured it grows strong. That is what makes it so beautiful.

A whole team of people worked to make that day in Buffels Bay beautiful. I would like to thank everyone involved for helping to make Nastya & Denis’s dreams come true!

Organization: Wedding Geographic

Photography and  : Jenya Zhivaleva

Decoration and Design: Lizelle Dunn

Makeup and Hair: Chantal Burger

Wedding Cake: Yulia Nilssen

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Wedding Geographic — агентство свадебных приключений, предлагающих организацию свадеб как в России, так и по всему миру, от разработки концепции всего мероприятия до маленькой детали на праздничном столе.

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Все больше и больше пар жаждут необычных свадеб в экзотических странах! Такие свадебные церемонии становятся не просто приключением для влюбленных, но и возможностью создать уникальную церемонию, согласно тому, как они ее видят и ощущают.

Выбор Насти и Дениса пал на бухту Буффало, ЮАР. Наша команда организовала свадебную церемонию на дикой стороне бухты. Мы построили на пляже красивую арку, под которой пара обменялась своими обетами во время песочной церемонии. Вечером их ждал свадебный пир в морском стиле, который мы провели в одном из прибрежных домов, что был украшен в соответствии с настроением.

Жених и невеста были также тронуты, как и мы. Слезы в глазах и широкие улыбки. Церемония была интимной и очень жизнерадостной.

В тот день, я в очередной раз думала о любви. Истинная любовь – это энергия, это процесс постоянного обновления. Любовь это выбор, который мы делаем в каждый момент времени до конца нашей жизни. Возможно в нашей жизни лишь одна свадебная церемония, когда мы говорим: “Да”, но в жизни мы делаем этот выбор снова и снова, принимая наших партнеров, и прощая их за все, что мы можем простить.

Истинная любовь – это не только страсть первой ночи, а выбор последующих лет вместе. Истинная любовь не приходит сразу, она начинается с малого, и если она обогащается, то становится сильной. И это то, что делает ее такой красивой.

Целая команда людей работала, чтобы сделать этот день в бухте Буффелс особенным. Я хотел бы поблагодарить всех участников за помощь исполнении мечты Настя и Дениса!

Oрганизации: Wedding Geographic

Фотография и : Женя Живалева
Оформление и дизайн: Лизел Данн
Макияж и прическа: Шантал Бургер
Свадебный торт: Юлия Нильсен

A sneak pick my next photo post. We organized and photographed a beautiful wedding ceremony for a Russian couple in Buffels Bay, South Africa.

Your Foto Story in collaboration with Wedding Geographic. Stay tuned for a full photo story.

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Afrikaburn 2013

For the past 6 years, in the semi-desert of the Karoo in South Africa, thousands of people have gathered annually for a festival called Afrikaburn.

JZH_9553JZH_9631-2 When I looked at videos and photos of previous events I was inspired, but I could not understand why one would need to go so far? Why create a festival in the middle of nowhere? Only when I went there I understood why.

Each newcomer gets a “survival guide” quite literally. You have to bring everything with you. From water for drinking and washing to sand bags for securing tents and gazebos. Unless you’ve got a power drill, pegs just don’t go into the ground, seriously.

The festival lasts 6 days. But organizers and volunteers arrive weeks before the time and stay for weeks afterwards, to get everything ready, set up and dissemble.

When shopping for our fifth water tank I had my doubts about going. We packed as if we’re moving to mars because Tankwa Town has no water, no electricity, no cellphone signal, no shops and no circulation of money in general.

JZH_9025-2Тhe gravel road to Tankwa town is an adventure on its own. After a 6 hour drive from Mossel Bay we finally reached the turn off to the gravel road. Let the fun begin. Visibility is about 20 cm because hundreds of cars out in front pick up all the dry dust of the Karoo.

Without air-con it’s a mission. Even if you close all the car’s windows and ventilation, dust will be everywhere. On your skin, hair, even a thick layer in your ears. Not to mention the 35 degree heat.

That 135 km gravel road requires incredible faith in what you’re about to do.

I kept repeating the words of little Kai, 5 year old son of our friends Leroy and Rebecca who was on their second trip to Afrikaburn. Kai is a quiet boy, but one evening, while we were looking at photos from previous burns, he suddenly looked up at us and said: “At Afrikaburn you can do anything you want. It is freedom.”

On that dust road, while passing on messages over the walkie-talkies in our convoy about overtaking other cars, I repeated his words like a mantra.

At last we reached Tankwa Town. We arrived in middle of a strong wind spell. There was dust and sand everywhere. I never would’ve thought that the protective mask I bought at our local hardware would be so useful.

As soon as you enter Tankwa Town you are greeted by walking octopuses, avatars and naked people everywhere. There’s music playing all around. Everybody’shanging out, riding bikes and mutant cars, making jokes, fixing nest looking structures on their heads, and regularly wiping thick layers of dust from their faces.

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People simply don’t care. It feels as if you’re in another world. Shock lasts until well after the second day. After adjusting to sleeping with deep bass sounds playing from every corner. I am talking about sound systems that shake your car! These became my bed-time songs 😉 After unpacking we finally had our little nest arranged in our bakkie.

In the morning, as we got out of our bed, there it was! A super-hero passing our camp! Neighbors on the right assembling a mutant car in the shape of a giant snail! On our left some people were meticulously constructing something on the head of one of our neighbors, whom they had just met.

In this situation, if you plan on wearing jeans and a t-shirt, you’re the one that’ll look like an idiot. The crazier your outfit, the better you’ll blend in.

I got inspired. Like a child I started rummaging in a suitcase full of odd stuff I had brought with. I was creating my outfit.

We got on our bikes and went to explore. Words can not describe what we saw. It’s unbelievable. The effort that people put into creating their costumes, theme camps and mutant vehicles.

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In accordance with Afrikaburn philosophy, there is no circulation of money in Tankwa Town. So if you see something on offer, food, drinks, a mail service, t-shirts printing, movie theater, dance shows, spas and hair salons, paints and canvases, costumes for hire, sweets, swings and funky car rides, it’s all for free.

Everyone brings to the community what they can. Just this practice creates a special atmosphere. People give each other all they can afford, people try to help one another, not because they will be rewarded, but because it’s so cool to give and in return you will get lots of free stuff from somewhere else anyway.

I know, I know, many skeptics will ask “Whats the point?” Everything is still the same as you left it once you return home. Believe me. I know. I have the same skeptic inside of me. But just trying it out for a week helps you to believe that this is possible.

If our system is different in reality, it’s only because we think that that’s the way it should be. We believe that it cannot be changed. 

Those 6 days is in the desert is not an escape from reality. It is the creation of a new reality. Together. Literally from scratch.

Even if you can only bring a drop of that inspiration back into your own ‘real’ life, it’s already changing your reality.

When was the last time you talked to your neighbors? When was the last time you helped a stranger? When was the last time you thought about how your actions influence other people? And what value do you add to this world?

I’m talking about a lifestyle. Respect for people and respect of yourself. Whatever you want to receive you need to give. Do you need inspiration? Give it. Do you want love? Give it. Do you want money? Give it. It really works. The Universe sees that you believe that you have it in abundance, so it will create that abundance for you. Our thoughts are that powerful.

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An important part of the festival are the burns of various giant figures, hence the name Afrikaburn. Every burn is a performance on its own. The various giant structures are specifically created so that they can be burned. 

How’s that for letting go of what you have?

Burns are also a great opportunity to warm up during the cold nights. The desert days can get warm. Up to 30 degrees plus. But nights sometimes drop to 5 degrees or lower. Lack of electricity and artificial lights allow you to see an incredible night sky. Despite all the colorful lights of the festival, the Karoo night sky is majestic.

Driving around during the day I saw many new performances and costumes and received various gifts! We even saw a naked desert surfer on an powered-up surf board with wheels. Hermann and myself attended the mass purple wedding and we got married again and complete strangers gave us lunch! That was the day I finally realized why all of this was happening.

Every day of our lives we are told how to live. From parents, schools, universities, friends, working environment, partners and then finally ourselves. We are so accustomed to what is considered ‘normal’ and all of us have a plan for life. If not, there’s something ‘wrong’ with us.

And then you come here and suddenly being ‘normal’ is no longer normal. It really is a challenge.

I’ve never fully withdrawn myself from the world of normalities, therefore I couldn’t fully feel what little Kai was talking about. Freedom.

I believe that is why people come back to Afrikaburn year after year.

Yes. Of course many people come to Afrikaburn just to forget. To let off steam just to return to their everyday reality and complain about their life. But others do come to Afrikaburn with conscious intention to create. When you meet these people you can immediately feel the difference.

Afrikaburn is just another one of thousands of possible ways to let go. It’s another powerful reminder that there is no right and no wrong and that opposing things always exist simultaneously. Each person has their own truth.

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This kind of festival is a conscious exercise to exit our daily routine and comfort zone. It’s the stimulation of your creativity. You learn to let the free flow of your ideas live, not allowing your own doubts to kill them off one by one.

We have long forgotten what a free soul truly is. We immediately associate the word ‘freedom’ with anarchy.

But I’m talking about the freedom of choosing what you believe. I’m talking about the joyful creation of your own reality in the absence of fears and expectations.

To understand something like this in the comforts of home, with minimal effort and without any challenges, is nearly impossible.

Only after coming this far and accepting all the discomforts and inconveniences of living in the desert, I finally understood, for just a moment, how to enjoy that moment.

What a special day that was! Dunn’s family came to visit us on the farm) Whenever I see these two beautiful ladies, I cant’ help it, but reach for the camera. Lilly and Lizelle Dunn!

A sudden moment of inspiration, thank you my friends!

Holidays are approaching!  I realized that it is time to start preparing Christmas presents.

To be honest, I am one of those people who cant stand shopping or crowds in the malls. On top of that I truly believe that the best gift is some kind of experience rather than an object. I would prefer to receive a boat ride as a gift, rather than a new dress.

So for those who struggle with the same thing, here is an idea. Offer a gift voucher for a photoshoot for your beloved ones. It can be a portrait session, family shoot or even surfing portfolio.

Once the gift voucher is purchased I will be waiting for a call to schedule a photo shoot. Voucher is valid for 6 months, so it will not be a problem to find the right time for the photo shoot. Photo shoot can be organized within Mossel Bay and George area, and in Cape Town on certain dates.

Price details of various packages can be seen here

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If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me .